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Laurel Kendall

Getting Married in Korea

Of Gender, Morality, and Modernity

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269 pages,
May 1996, Available worldwide
Categories: Anthropology; Cultural Anthropology; East Asia Other; Women's Studies; Men & Masculinity

"Kendall constructs a rich ethnography of 'new-style' wedding practices among the working- and middle-class women and men living in the Republic of Korea. . . . Clearly, one of the major strengths of the book is Kendall's firsthand knowledge of Korean culture. . . . [Her] familiarity with Korea and its history provides a layered background from which the reader is able to grasp how changes in the meanings of both 'new-style' and 'traditional' weddings are linked to specific transformations in Korean society over the last 35 years. Getting Married in Korea contains an excellent analysis of the shifting meanings of gender and marriage in Korean society and serves as an example of how to write an engaging and enlightening ethnography. Kendall's book would be of interest to both anthropologists and sociologists who are concerned with cultural constructions of gender and marriage or, more broadly, with the lives of Asian women."—Contemporary Sociology

"In this book, we learn a great deal about the changing roles of Korean women, young and old, in a society rapidly transformed in the late twentieth century by industrial capitalism and the emergence of a full-blown consumer culture. . . . [Kendall] skillfully weaves together with anthropological analysis an impressive mix of ethnographic description, personal narrative, historical contextualization, and meticulous review of the relevant scholarly literature. . . . An engaging and important book, with much to say about gender in late twentieth-century Korea. Korea specialists patiently reading footnotes will be rewarded by a wealth of new and interesting material; students will find the text lively, the conclusions clear. It should prove a useful addition to courses on Korean society, and is a welcome contribution to the scholarly literature on Korean women."—Korean Studies
This work explores what it means to be modern and what it means to be Korean in a culture where courtship and marriage are often the crucible in which notions of gender and class are cast and recast. Touching on a number of important issues—identity, romantic love, women's work, marriage negotiations, and wedding ceremonies—Laurel Kendall gives us a new appreciation for how Koreans have adapted this pivotal social practice to the astounding changes of the past century.

Kendall attended her first Korean wedding in 1970, soon after she arrived in the country with the Peace Corps. Years later, as a seasoned anthropologist, she began interviewing both working-class and middle-class couples, matchmakers, purveyors of dowry goods, and proprietors of wedding halls. She consulted etiquette handbooks and women's magazines and analyzed cartoons, photographs, and weddings themselves. The result is an engaging account of how marriage matches are made, how families proceed through the rites, how they finance ceremonies and elaborate exchanges of ritual goods, and how these practices are integral to the construction of adult identities and notions of ideal women and men. The book is also a reflection on what it means to write "Korea" in a complex and ever changing social milieu.
Laurel Kendall is Curator of Asian Ethnographic Collections at the American Museum of Natural History. Her previous books include Shamans, Housewives, and Other Restless Spirits: Women in Korean Ritual Life (1985) and The Life and Hard Times of a Korean Shaman: Of Tales and the Telling of Tales (1988).